Om Shri Matre Namah

In short: this reflection by Sri Sadguru Peetham says that as long as the sense of 'I and mine' remains, self-knowledge (atma jnana) cannot be fully grasped. It draws on the Bhagavad Gita and a traditional story of a proud pandit and a sadhu. We add the Gita verse 16.18 with its meaning, and short answers on reducing ego in daily life.

However much knowledge a person gains, however much wealth they gather, however high a position they reach… as long as the ego of “I… mine” remains in their mind, they cannot fully grasp self-knowledge.

From a spiritual point of view, ahankara is not merely arrogance or pride. Taking the body, the mind, the intellect, wealth and status to be one's true self is the root of ahankara. As long as we believe we are only this limited body, we cannot recognise the infinite atman, the Self within us.

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What Sri Krishna teaches about ahankara in the Bhagavad Gita

In chapter 16 of the Bhagavad Gita, Sri Krishna Paramatma teaches clearly about ahankara. Ego takes a person away from the truth and keeps them in the illusion that “my opinion alone is right”. Where there is ego, humility shrinks. Where there is no humility, the heart that can receive true knowledge does not blossom.

Chapter 16 describes the divine and the demonic qualities (daivi and asuri sampat). Verse 16.4 names hypocrisy, arrogance (darpa), excessive pride (abhimana), anger, harshness and ignorance among the demonic traits, and verse 16.18 names ahankara directly:

Bhagavad Gita 16.18

अहङ्कारं बलं दर्पं कामं क्रोधं च संश्रिताः ।
मामात्मपरदेहेषु प्रद्विषन्तोऽभ्यसूयकाः ॥

ahaṅkāraṃ balaṃ darpaṃ kāmaṃ krodhaṃ ca saṃśritāḥ |
māmātmaparadeheṣu pradviṣanto'bhyasūyakāḥ ||

Meaning: Taking shelter in ego, force, arrogance, desire and anger, such people are envious and hate Me, who dwell in their own bodies and in the bodies of others.

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Sanskrit text: Shrimad Bhagavadgita, chapter 16, verse 18, as given on sanskritdocuments.org.

The Gita returns to this elsewhere. In chapter 13 (verses 8–9), Krishna counts humility (amanitvam) and freedom from ego (anahankara) among the marks of true knowledge. In 18.53 he says that one who gives up ego, force, arrogance, desire, anger and possessiveness, free of the sense of 'mine' and at peace, becomes fit to realise Brahman.

Just as surrender (sharanagati) is important on the path of devotion, overcoming ego is equally important on the path of knowledge.

A story: the pandit and the sadhu

(This is a traditional teaching story, told and retold over generations; it is not a historical event.)

Once, a great pandit, proud of his learning, questioned a sadhu: “What do you know about knowing God?”

The sadhu smiled, drew a line on the ground and said: “This line is your ego. As long as it is there, you will see yourself as separate from others.”

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Then, wiping the line away, he taught: “When ego goes, the sense of difference fades, and the vision to grasp the truth arises. Knowledge is not for increasing ego; it is for removing ignorance.”

Those words touched the pandit's heart. He looked within and asked himself whether his knowledge had increased his humility or his pride.

What is real knowledge?

Real knowledge does not make a person look great. It frees them from the desire to display greatness.

Just as the light shines clearly once the soot on a lamp is cleared away, the radiance of self-knowledge comes into experience when ego and mamakara, the attachment of 'mine', leave the mind.

That is why steady practice (sadhana), self-reflection, satsang, the guru's teaching and devotion to God are all essential on the spiritual journey.

A truth to remember

  • One who has wealth may be wealthy
  • One who has knowledge may be a scholar
  • But only one who has conquered his own ego is truly wise

Where ego lessens, humility blossoms. Where humility blossoms, devotion ripens. Where devotion ripens, the path to self-inquiry (atma vichara) opens up.

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Knowing that everything is a form of the Paramatma, going beyond the narrow sense of “I”, and living with humility: this is the first step we must take on the path of self-knowledge.

Reflection by: — Sri Sadguru Peetham

Frequently asked questions

What is ahankara from a spiritual point of view?

Ahankara is not only pride or arrogance. It is the sense of 'I and mine' that makes us take the body, mind, intellect, wealth and status to be our true self. The Bhagavad Gita (7.4) even counts ahankara as one of the eight parts of material nature (prakriti), which shows that it belongs to what changes, not to the atman, the unchanging Self.

What does the Bhagavad Gita say about ahankara?

In chapter 16, verse 4 names arrogance (darpa) and excessive pride (abhimana) among the demonic traits, and verse 16.18 says people given over to ego, force, arrogance, desire and anger turn against the Divine in themselves and in others. Chapter 13 (verses 8–9) counts humility and freedom from ego (anahankara) among the marks of true knowledge, 3.27 says the one deluded by ego thinks 'I am the doer', and 18.53 says one who gives up ego and possessiveness and is at peace becomes fit to realise Brahman.

How can we reduce ego in daily life?

Start small and keep at it. At night, look back on the day and ask whether your words came from humility or from pride. Listen fully before you reply. Acknowledge the good in others and admit your own mistakes. Do some seva without wanting credit. Keep satsang, japa or prayer in your routine, and offer the results of your work to God. These are aids for steady practice, not quick fixes; the change comes slowly.

What is the difference between self-respect and ego?

Self-respect knows its own worth and gives the same respect to others; it does not need to put anyone down, and it can accept correction. Ego needs to stand above others, cannot admit a mistake, and measures itself by wealth, status or always being right. Self-respect says 'I matter too'; ego says 'only I matter'.

Can knowledge itself increase ego?

Yes. As the pandit in the story shows, learning can become a new reason for pride. The test is simple: does what you know make you more humble and kinder? Knowledge is not for increasing ego; it is for removing ignorance.

Editor's note

This reflection was shared with HinduTone in Telugu by Sri Sadguru Peetham. The Telugu version is the original; the English and Hindi pages are faithful translations of it. The invocation, the reflection, the story and the closing lines are the author's. HinduTone added the short summary, the Sanskrit text and meaning of Bhagavad Gita 16.18 with its source, the references to verses 16.4, 13.8–9 and 18.53, the note that the pandit and sadhu story is a traditional teaching story, the questions and answers and the related links. This page is a spiritual reflection, not professional advice.

Last updated: 26 October 2026